We're currently weaning Aidan off his swaddle. I never liked doing it past two months and recently we've also been concerned about him getting cold. In his swaddle we could use a blanket, but now he pulls his blanket over his face since his arms are free. So yesterday my mom bought him a fleece sleep sack and underneath he wears his thermal underwear. His little hands still get cold, since the sleep sack just has long sleeves.
Aidan's also been waking up in the middle of the night and we've been trying to get him to fall alseep again without rocking or nursing. Night before last it took us two hours -- I did nurse him and he did not fall asleep, so we put him back to bed and it was back and forth for an hour and a half. Last night he woke up at 4 AM and we thought it wasn't worth it to spend two hours getting him to sleep again by 6 AM. So I took him to bed with us to nurse and nap. I got some more sleep. I think we'll try to put him back to sleep if he gets up before 3:30 AM.
We cannot let him cry it out as we are against that method. So we've been giving him a bippy (pacifier) and patting his butt, then leaving the room. If he whimpers we leave him, but once the crying starts we come in and comfort him without picking him up. Putting himself back to sleep when he wakes up during the night has got to be a huge major obstacle for parents!
Got a book at the library about making your own super baby food. I'm already doing it, but any additional info I can get my hands on is good.
Gotta go now! Have an appointment at the DMV to get my name and address changed. Hope they let me keep my old picture!
1 comment:
It does take some time for them to learn to sleep on their own. For the first 6 months I either co-slept for picked them up every time. I am also opposed to the traditional CIO. But at 6 months (when I was sure they had enough food to last through the night) I did a very gentle CIO method of letting them cry for 5 minutes for the first week, 10 mintues for the second, 15 for the third (never intending to get to 20 and I never had to). They learned to sleep on their own after that.
Everyone has a different method, and I hope you all get some sleep soon :)
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